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then on the following saturday my family came and my dad asked again nicely isit okay for us to take our daughter home tomorrow. my m.i.l said yeah u can its up to you. but she said it with a right bitter face everyone was witness to that. my mum said ok we'll take her. so that night they sent my sister inlaw who my m.in.l talks so bad about behind her back to try and convince me to stay but i told her straight that i was made a promise and besides i want to go and i need my rest. she came up with all sorts of sh!t saying the father needs to bond with baby at this time, what will people say, you should go during the day when you are better etc. when she left i bursted into tears and my husband said i could go and not to worry. i told him to promise me that he wont change his attitude towards me when i go he promised. but the next day his mum made a p[lay of having a migrane and went to hospital and they sent her back saying theres nothing wrong with her, she was upstairs in her bedroom all day. then after when she did come back my husband realised i was still going to my mums even after his mum going hospital started getting really awkward and sarcastic. his mood upset me and hurt me so bad that i startd to cry. when i was ready to go he was being really rude to me infront of his family and mine and also at that time we had visitors. i was trying hard to stop crying but could not help it. he completely stopped talking to me and it was killing me. just so that he could cheer up a bit i said ill come back within 4 days, he told me to take the breast pump as he was going to come the next day to take baby home.and that he wasnt going to come inside to my mums house. i quietly did as i was told.