well i finally dumped my long term boyriend (15 years)
what a dead beet - i was getting old before my time! all he wanted to do was sit around having a quicky every now and then -
took me out to piza on special occassions lol
ok i read all your answers: i needed help you know changing bulbs and little bit help getting places and some finacial help. i did nt have any thing he offered and was happy to go along with being used but i guess ihad a price to pay .... ididnt fancy him at all and over the years it got worse.... he got worse in the end he pissed me off so much i dumped him!!!!!
he earns 35K a year and could only afford some beer and pizza you know what i change my bulbs and i eat my own pizza. i choose the toppings and i dont even have to have a salameeeeee after wards...
any objections????
Perhaps he thought better off spending his well earned money on a user like you and that's why you never got treated to anything better. You can't act like you did and expect to be treated like a princess
Good luck for the future, life is what you make it, every day is really a blessing (no I am not religous far from it) but after a very, very painful divorce many years ago now I have never ever been happier and laugh every day, so whatever you want go for it
"the more i think about it sallabananas i dont know what he is. i used him for long time not because he has a big fish - because i was helpless and needed help but i payed the price in many ways then one. and he knew it. so now i dont need him or force my self to eat piza and drink beer "
Nothing is for free, there's always a price to pay. It took you fifteen years so hopefully you've learned a very good lesson.