that shows them

[mollykins]

I jsut found out that my parents applied for me to be on 'worlds strictest parents' BUT I completely failed, apparantly i'm better than the end result, and why would they dream of putting me on the programme.

apparantly it's because i don't do any of the following;

party and come home high and drunk the enxt day.
drink lots of alcahol
smoke
swear at my parents
fail at school


ha

Polite, sensible comments welcome.

[ChocolatChip]

Then why did they feel the need to apply.
There must be some kind of issue?
Attitude maybe?

[mollykins]

They think i'm terrible, they've never actually watched the programme to see how bad they are, jsut thought it was a good idea.

[ChocolatChip]

But what I'm getting at is that you must do something.
Like when I was young teen, I felt that I was perfectly fine, well behaved, always went to school, did well, never really went out. No drink, drugs, sex, smoking.
But my parents felt that I was very moody, and could say some nasty things to them, particularly to my mother. And was very messy and lazy.
And their opinion of it is very different to mine.
So why don't you, rather than come and complain about it, actually go and ask them about it, find out why they think you're such a bad teenager. Why can't there be some kind of compromise. Rather than this?

[society]

Hi Molly, you're a good girl. Noooo I mean young lady.

[boxtops]

Perhaps they thought it would be a treat for you to see what other parents are like :-)

[mollykins]

They think i'm; moody, lazy, messy and my dad expects me to be like my brothers and sister, but this isn't the 70s and 80s! And theyre shocked when they go to parents evening and I get good grades and the teachers think i'm brillinat (well except the PE teacher that is . . . )

[boxtops]

well then, it would have been an eye-opener for them if they had swopped you with another young person who might be more like they say they think you are - then they would see what you are really like.

[mollykins]

Maybe they should watch the programme, then they might realise i'm better than those teenagers.

[Mamyalynne]

Indeed they should.

[dothawkes31]

you are untidy I'm sure, and you are very critical of them, you act like the parent and are quite unemotional when you mention your Mum and Dad, I think they are not very deminstrative and that has led you to mature too early and take on a more parental role yourself that should not have happened

[mollykins]

Perhaps dot, they never care when I brign awards home but if I get anything wrong, i'm for it.

[chattykathy]

Don't let their attitude change you. I was a bit like that. I never got praise for all the good thigs I did and in the end thought I might as well not bother much to my disadvantage. However, I saw sense in the end and made something of myself. Stick with it and do what you think is right!!!

[mumof3angels]

Molly -I'd be broken hearted if my daughter came on here and slagged me off. It's not the first time you've complained about your mum and dad. If they're shocked when they go to parents eve and find out you're wonderful-what are you like at home????

[mollykins]

They just think I'm lazy so are shocked when I'm hard working and helpful at school.

[tamborine]

the rebel stirs

[ummmm]

If you at home like you do on here....I can't say I can blame them.

[ummmm]

Insert *moan

[mollykins]

I'm not though I wouldn't dare.

[ummmm]

But you're incredibly ungrateful....