dilema 13 year old daughter being picked on

[zzxxee]

My 13 year old daughter is being picked on by the lad that lives next door but is also in her year at school
she wears a sports style bra as she is not comfortable with ones that fasten at the back
the kid next door has been taking the mickey out of her for this and constantly goes on about the size of her bust and how babyish she is for not wearing a " grown " up bra .she is usually resilient, but this is getting her down.
I get on with the lads mother we are not close neighbours but say hello. I just dont know how to approach this and wether to see her first or go up to the school as most of the bullying takes place there. its getting her down quite a bit any suggestions would be appreciated
TIAXX

[tastymorsel]

Not that this will help your daughter but it does seem as though this little sh!t fancies your daughter and his girlfriend knows it.I don't know your daughters disposition but could she not stick her finger up at them both when they start? They would soon get tired and it would also make them look stupid

[zzxxee]

trouble is she is just to quiet and gentle she takes everything to heart nothing like her elder sister !!!!

[starone]

Time to stop being soft and gentle and book her into a kick boxing class. They are about for juniors, my friend's daughter joined one. My niece accompanied her daughter to school, entered the class room and sat at one of the desks and when asked to leave said she was staying there until she could be sure her daughter was not bullied any more and that she would persist every day it went on. They soon got off their backsides and stopped it. Don't know if either of these would work though. You have to be tough in this world.

[zzxxee]

thanks to everyone on the input on this matter it seems to be sorted now thankyou xx

[annie0000]

Good to hear zzxxee - hope all is well (and stays well!)