firstly triggerhippy, please may I apologise for any flippancy but because I have become so accustomed to your glib remarks to me every time I am in here it is very hard to read the meaning of your words, your daughters pain has got be a whole lot worse than mine, I was an adult, she is not and I cannot imagine how it must be very difficult for you witnessing your little girls pain, I have, on more than one occasion, asked how she is but have never had a reply from you, this was most certainly assuming you were making another glib remark, and for this, I am so sorry