I think jj means she can’t go out socially at the moment. Normally I go out to coffee, lunch and the theatre quite often. I do an exercise class weekly, a monthly Breathe Easy meeting, a monthly Lierature at Lunchtime talk, weekly line dancing and occasional days out . All this is gone and no amount of jigsaws, crosswords, puzzle books, TV, DVD’s, books, walks and phone calls from friends can replace these activities which distract me from eating, except at set mealtimes. This, to me, is what nothing else to do means.