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Unfortunately, this is having a unwanted side effect in that he is NEVER going to have a baby brother or sister at this rate coz my hubby and I never even seem to spend a full night in the same bed, let alone do anything while we're in it, also we are too knackered to anyway!!
Also, he is a quiet little boy and maybe a bit of a loner but lately, he seems to have got worse, he just seems to hate joining in with anything, he loves art & craft things, play games on the computer or play games at home but doesn't like doing anything where he has to be with other children, sometimes he seems to just want to be by himself, and loves to spend time on his own in his bedroom - even though he goes to nursery and generally interacts well with the others,his teachers have said that he plays well and talks in the group and to other kids, he even has a girlfriend!!...Even when we take him out for the day, he seems to be desperate to get back home so he is in a familiar environment with his dvds & games etc....I have invited a friend home for lunch this week to see if that helps break the nursery/home boundary he seems to have created....it sounds ridiculous but sometimes I think he deliberately decides to be miserable and determined not to enjoy himself!!!!!!!!
This all sounds really bad whe I read it back, but he is a lovely little boy, I love him more than anything and I wouldn't swap him for the world. He is affectionate, kind, funny, bright and mostly happy - please tell me it is just a phase!
Sorry this turned into such a rant - I am just soooo frustrated and would really appreciate any advice you can give!
Thanks
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