I know exactly where you are coming from, since I'm no expert either.
I understand there are 2 times in the year for pruning, either after flowering before winter sets in, or as I tend to do, in the spring.
I pruned mine today because I was feeling bad that it was using up resources budding at the tips already, where I wasn't going to allow. They were too tall last year, they are not going to be taller this year.
But was it leaving it late since the buds were sprouting already, or too soon because we had snow not that long ago ?
And yes I felt I had to leave them taller than desired because of the lack of buds lower down. Rightly or wrongly I made some cuts above the bud as instructed, but elsewhere I wasn't going to be dictated to by the plant. It got cut where I decided was the highest I was prepared to leave it, bud or no bud. I figured some folk cut right back and the plant sorts itself out, so I'm hoping it will for me also.