Anything to worry about?

[cattycreme]

Hello, I was wondering if you could help me. I'm getting kinda worried (probably about nothing) but its just, that I'm with my husband 12 years now, and I've never had much of an appetite in the bedroom department if you know what I mean.

But these past few weeks, its actually turned around BIG TIME. After 12 years of maybe once every few months, its now, I want to make love nearly every night.

I love my husband, and always have, there has been no change in my life, diet, weight, anything. I know I should just smile and accept it (I know my hubby is), but I'm just a little worried, could my out of character appetite being triggered by something a little more sinister?

I'm having a smear done this week, but need a little reassurance. Am I being unbelievably stupid and worrying over nothing? I just cant help thinking back to womens mags that stories appear like ' my orgasim saved my life because I had headaches with it and it turned out to be a clot' etc..... things like that.

[redcrx]

There is the old view that women 'peak' in their 30s. Just enjoy it, it wont be anything to worry about.

[kazzianne]

I have always had a very high sex drive,much to the delight of boyfriend! I would make love every single night if he had the energy!! But yes I have read many times that a womans sexual peak is in her thirties.So make the most it it girl!!

[Scarlett]

If you are in your 30s or approaching them, that could be why. Hormonally, our peak is our 30s. For men it's 18!! So, we feel more "at ease" and more like doing it at that age. Biologically it is probably our clock making us have one last sex-fest before we run out of eggs. Men are just encouraged by nature to spread their seed far and wide and as soon as possible! To give you an example, my friend is 4 months pregnant, and is SO desperate for sex all the time. She never used to be. It is nature's way of making her husband stay with her throughout the pregnancy, as she will need him once the baby arrives.

[raysparx]

Sounds to me like,he;s the cat that got the creme, good one eh!!!!

don't wear him out though us blokes aren't sex objects to be used by you floosies!!!

[Amara]

Wow ! How amazing for you and your husband. The Goddess has been released. Just go with the flow and Enjoy it - Love and light - Amara xx