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He is 4 next week.
He doesnt see much of Phil now but he talks about him as Dad, I don't correct him but I'll reply and use the name Phil. He speaks to Phil on the phone occasionally but I think he is distancing himself now as he has started to meet up with new girlfriends. I don't know, it's really difficult. Charlie has lot's of male role models in his life; my dad, my brother, my uncle and cousins. Maybe its for the best that Phil is slowly but surely disappearing?