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Ceasing Christmas Cards
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Thinking of not sending cards after this year - not any that have to go in the post anyway, as it's costing too much. Want to add a note to this year's cards to advise this is the last year ..... how do I put it?
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Just don't send any, don't bother with a note. Anyone who's mildly interested in why they didn't receive one from you may get in touch and you can tell them why you've stopped sending them. That's what I did and very liberating it is too!
20:57 Sat 09th Nov 2013
Correct, Buenchico. Some of my relatives are using the same list as my late mother had. Some of them send cards to her and she has been dead 5 years. And we would not recognise each other in a room of ten people. Some of them are people who would try to touch her for money. I wonder whether I should tell them that she is unlikely to reward their optimism!
Well it does sound as though you don't want to post any! If you don't then just don't. You could put a note in each card this year saying that from next year you won't be sending any cards and will instead be making a donation to charity. Or just don't send any next year! Or prune your list to people you really do want to stay in touch with, I lost about 30 people on my list by just thinking about each person, how long it was since I'd last seen them, and how much I wanted to stay in touch with them. But as been pointed out, you can get packs of cards really cheap, and send any 2nd class. And remember, stamps are no dearer this year than they were last year!
Christmas cards are definitely on the decline, I find it kind of sad. Although as someone previously mentioned a similar story, my brother (who lives in my mum's old house) still gets a cards from overseas friends addressed to my mum, who passed away 8 years ago, they never leave an address for themselves so we cant tell them . . . I applaud their persistence ;-)
Send ecards to those who can deal with them next year but this year add a note saying something to the effect that you have decided to grasp the future and move fully into the digital era, save trees, and pollution caused by the paper industry . You will probably find suitable guff in some political party inspirational speeches.
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