Horrible life

[auntwendy]

Hey I don't really know about this we site but I need some advice. Basically a few years ago My husband was killed when we were holiday. Basically we were in a car crash and I managed to get my self out of the car but he was unconcious. I really tried to get him out but the car set alight and I had to get away from it. It was really horrible as he woke up and I could here his screaming. Anyway me and my daughter took it pretty hard and I was in Depression ever since. Two months ago we had another blow as my daughter was arrested in Bolivia for drug smuggling. Last week they awarded her 13 years in prison. She is only 19 and is such a beautiful girl. She got involved with some really horrible people who apparently threatened her into doing it. I havent made it out to see her as I am on benefits and really cant afford the flight so we keep in touch via the phone or post. Not that this isnt enough last week I was diagnosed with having a brain tumour and early signs are that it is melignant. I know I dont really have long to live but dont know how to tell my daughter I will never see her again. I really wish I could click my fingers and everything would go dark. Can anyone give me any advice please?

[sara3]

spotted

[auntwendy]

Hello Sarah are you talking to me? I dont really know how this site works. How do I get my replies to my Message?

[redcrx]

youre right, horrible life.

hi sara! who was it that was coming back as a woman today?

[auntwendy]

Are these replies to my question?

[sara3]

I said I always spotted them, red.

he called me Sarah yesterday too. that always spoils my day!

[sleepyj]

god how awful !

[Richard1966]

auntwendy,

basically these people dont believe that your post is real. I have to admit that the amount of misfortune you have endured is difficult to comprehend.

What advice are you looking for

[auntwendy]

Just what to do. I cant bear the thought of ttelling my daughter. Has anybody been in any similar situations? My fortune is not significant compared to the poor souls who live in poverty surrounded by death and pain everyday of their unfulfilling life. I just wanted some advice on how to tell her. Why would anybody possible make up a story like mine. I fail to comprehend what there is not to beleive.

[Tups]

I really have lost my husband tragically so if you are a time waster, I find the whole thing very offensive.

[auntwendy]

I am starting to wish I never found this web site. I don't know where you all come from but I just cant believe the replies I have had. I pour my soul out for the hope of a bit of advice and maybe sympathy only to get accused of bieng a liar and you would have to be a pretty deranged liar to make this up wouldnt you.

[cazzz1975]

there are all sorts who plumb those depths, because of this I take all these posts with a pinch of salt, if you are truly in need of advice I suggest you phone an advice line, just google them

[Tups]

Samaratans would be the best bet

[tiggertan]

OMG! If you are genuine then my heart really does go out to you. However, The likes Of CRX who is a long term member thinks you are a regular user who is taking the pis�. If you are, please stop, it's disgraceful and very hurtful to those who have lost people.

[tiggertan]

Btw, it's a fact that not many cars actually burst in to flames. Again, my sincere apologies if I am wrong.

[Tups]

And if your daughter really has been given a long jail sentence, it must have been headline news. Can we have the link please?

[redcrx]

tigger is correct, very few cars catch alight. I can't understand that someone looking for advice would find answerbank the place to post.

[auntwendy]

Well I have almost been brought to tears with all these heartless comments I realljust cant believe it. I truelly hope you are all satisfied.

[Sgt.Rock]

Would anyone start a serious post with the word "Hey"?

[daffy654]

I can't find a single news report to corroborate your story about your daughter,it would definitely have made the news here if it happened at all.If you are a genuine poster(which I doubt) then please post a link to the news report.