How Do I become An Escort?

[sssg4]

I have been advised that a good way of clearing my student debts is to become an escort. I am deadly serious about doing this and so would realy appreciate some advice on how I go about this.

Thanks!

Sarah

[january_bug]

I presume this question is a wind up, if not then :-

You WANT to be a prostitute?! Will you put that on your CV when applying for graduate training positions!?

Seriously, think properly about this. Why don't you just work in a shop/catering establishment/office, and work HARD? Of course the other way to clear the debts is to get a career. After all, that's why you went to uni in the first place I presume!

[andy hughes]

You need a certain mindset to be able to do this job Sarah. Most 'agencies' are a front for a brothel - they skim around the law because any sexual arrangements between yourself and their 'client' don't involve them, so they are not open to prosecution.

Of course, it is perfectly possible to simply accompany a gentleman on an evening out as his companion, and be paid for it, but these engarements are likely to be a small percentage compared with the 'other services?' enquiries you can expect.

If you put yourself in isolated situations with men you don't know on a regular basis, the odds of you being assaulted, raped, or even murdered, shorten dramatically, so you really need to exhaust other employment areas before you consider this one.

If you are presentable, and bright - as a studnet you must be - why not become a casnio croupier? You can work at night, it's a lot safer, and a good item for your CV.

Do think very carefully before you proceed - it's a dangerous profession you are looking at - is it really for you?

[Octavius]

If you are deadly serious then you should at least know by now that you pick up the phone and dial the number of any escort agency advertised in your local rag and ask them if they are looking for escorts. If not then I would suggest an alternative career.

[january_bug]

Octavious.... I presume you are implying one that requires no common sense whatsoever!

Might I suggest, if you are truly serious about this, that you ring an agency, ask if they need any new escorts, then get a male friend to use the service for a night and ask the girl if she does extras. If she does, then you know that you're on a fast track of prostitution. If she doesn't then you must still be highly cautious.

I still can't quite believe that a girl my age, and with similar debts to me, and who also has a degree, has NO other talents that she resorts to being an escort to pay off debts. Do you actually expect a job/career AFTER you've paid the debts back?

[undercovers]

the sex industry is a tricky one - you can either work in it and be able to seperate the sex from the rest of your life - or you can't and it can really damage you e.g. you become a victim rather than a girl making good money. As a suggestion why don't you dip your toe into the industry a bit and try out for lapdancing club or similar - this will give you an idea how you feel about selling yourself without having to go so far as actually sleeping with the men - plus the clubs are secure and safe places.

Re escorts - if you really want to do that then fine but as already said ALL the clients will expect you to be a prostitute and the opportunity to actually escorting someone anywhere other than a hotel room will be quite rare. May i suggest that you think about working for a brothel instead - in those situations you are in a more secure / safe environment as the brothel will have security measure and you will be better protected than if you are alone with men in hotels and at their houses.

[ursula62]

if you can sing, why not try working as a partygram girl? We booked one for a friend's birthday and she turned up with two butch minders and an alsatian dog. I assume you'd be safe enough doing stuff like that.

[Yingying1987]

My previous boss was a escort apparently thats how she was able to buy a house at XXage (cant remember but it was a young age) she said that she met lots of nice men and sometimes they would buy her things to wear for the events shed have to attend. Sex was not part of the service and was upto the girl if she wanted to, but the men SHOULD NOT (although some might) expect sex.

There are probably lots of dodgy agencies that use it as a cover but there are probably some proper ones too so you may luck out. But do be careful and yes as one of the girls posted phone up and ask.

ps. i was a waitress at a restaurant and the boss im talking about was the events manager.

[twiglet4frog]

dont do an agency, set it up yourself! find a burley uni student with debts also to be your minder that u are in mobile contact with at all times and will wait for u outside whatever venue u are escorting too. then just advertise in the local paper using a mobile number for them to contact u on, then make sure u check out escort websites to see prices and offer similar escorting services for the same or slightly cheaper prices and off the minder a cut of the profit to make it worth his while (�80 an hour means u could offer him 25% meaning he gets �20 an hour for sitting about waiting on u with his phone close by, not bad job) and once regular clients are ringing in u should be calling all your own shots and earning a small fortune for both u and your minder friend.

Still a risky venture and u have to be prepared to possibly offer extras that u couldnt tell your parents about at the xmas table but thats something that is a big part of earning such great money. Cant always have it all ways.

[KirstyP]

Hi

I've been thinking about this too. Is anyone here an escort, or been one in the past?If so I'd really like to ask you some questions / get some advice.

And to all the people who were so outraged by the idea - my debt is really unmanageable. I need to do something about it.

Thanks...

[zoe123]

Iv been an escort for over a year now i first started doing it because i needed to pay for xmas for my daughter. Its a hard job but it gets easier its a cliche but the first times the worse after that it does get easier and you become use to the money and its hard to get away from it, but to be able to live debt free and see a smily happy face on xmas day made it all worth it, imade over 1500 in one week thats after agency fee's where paid out aswell its a brilliant source of income if u can do it

[KirstyP]

no we haven't - can we?

[KirstyP]

hey - yeah I read your posts, but would be cool to talk a bit more...

can't make the link work can you send it again?

K x

[KirstyP]

Sarah - what have you decided to do?can we chat about this by email?

Zoe - do you tell people what you do? can i get some advice from you on starting out as an escort?

lots of questions but no-one else i know to talk to about it.

[SammyZ]

Funny that you mention all of this because my debt is huge as well and I am having trouble finding an escort to advise me. I have spoken briefly to one, but she worries that I'm a cop. So any of you out there who have been posting under this topic...Any luck?