I sort of get Maydup's point. My late brother in law, who lived abroad, was an extrememly unpleasant person, estranged from all his family. I knew where he lived, and he had my address and when my husband died, I wrote a formal letter to let him know...heard nothing back which was what i expected. Because I didn't trust him, I used periodically to google his name to keep tabs a bit, then one time I did it up popped a photo of me and DH from my wedding day. He had died and his partner had posted a load of photos online that she had found in his possessions. There was a contact email so I got in touch and gave my condolences but asked for the picture to be taken down. She never responded and the photo is still there...I guess she made the website and abandoned it...or maybe she died herself...It does feel kind of creepy and unpleasant to know that such a personal picture is out there and there is nothing I can do.