Help!!

[caz21]

I answered someones question last week about snooping! now its my turn!

I just logged on to my boyfs mail account (vv bad i know)

He has an email yesterday to his ex and a reply saying he wishes he could buy an island and whisk her away somewhere exotic and he misses her!

What do i do?

[kazza12345]

dump him? Lock him in your cellar?

[kazza12345]

i saw a bit in the paper the other day where a spurned g/f cut 1 arm off of all her b/f clothes quotig "men like him only need 1 arm" (i.e. bankers)
maybe you could do that?

[PinkFizz]

oh no!! How long have you two been together??
Must say that wouldnt he have a secret password if he didnt want you to see anything?He doesnt seem to be trying to hide anything - unless you never normally look at his mail.

[Octavius]

Send him this:

http://www.privateislandsonline.com/buy-an-isl and.htm

Then tell him to naff off and take her with him.

[Pippa68]

pack his suitcase all ready for his trip to that exotic island..then threaten him with the nutcrackers.

[PinkFizz]

Nice one Octavius!

[Octavius]

Hey PunkFuzz, has your partner snooped on your emails to the old flame yet, or is it only women that do this?

[bobtheturkey]

if a gf read my e mails she would be out the door at approx 135mph or anyone for that matter

[PinkFizz]

Hi Octavius - we dont read each others emails,post,text messages,nothing,I wouldnt dream of looking at his - its personal.As for the old flame - ive decided to keep it as the past - best thing dont you think?

[Octavius]

There's a good lass PunFuzz. Although I did have visions of you steaming open envelopes in the kitchen. Have to revise that image.

caz21. There really is nothing to add, that hasn't been said on the previous post you refer to. Either you come clean and admit that you are devious snoop and you have found him out and ask him to explain, or you ignore what you have discovered.

Either way, I suspect your relationship has lost something very valuable on both sides. Trust.

[PinkFizz]

Just wondered what made you look in the first place??

[PinkFizz]

Thankyou Octopussy!

[dilf]

if you can read his emails then surely you can send them

have fun dumping him you bad lass. after you have let her know how much he prefers your body / brain / looks / lovemaking etc

poor bloke cant even trust his girlfriend.....the loser

[~Wingnut~]

Hmmm not jut me then. I check my hubby's e-mail's, text's, mail etc.. for him lol He says himself he can never plan a surprise for me as NOTHING gets past me, I get way too suspicious and seem to have a knack for working out something is going on before it's even happened. Just the way I am, he isn't bothered and seems to understand this and why I am like this so we just get on with it.
Maybe you could say to Boyf that you figured he wouldn't mind, or that you had sent an e-mail to him by mistake so was just finding it to delete?
Maybe drop a hint like.... "So.. if you were to get stranded on a desert island, who would you take?" and just give him a knowing look.

Come clean, if your relationship is strong enough it will survive this and you can get past the trust thing and deal with the real issue, why is he saying things like that to an ex!

Good luck! xx

[Katie~77]

Hi Caz. I think you know what you need to do. Get rid of the t*$$er!!!x

[Booldawg]

I think people only snoop on mails, txt etc if they have a feeling something is going on.

[crazie]

tell him to #$@% off!!!!!!!!!!! yea you dont need him.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Ms.Hijinx]

i know some good tricks with a ginger root if you can get him tied up!!!! dump him you deserve better

[Richie1976]

Stop fucking snooping.

[WendyS]

Dump him. NOW !