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hi there hiya! (lol)
I Did suggest he ask someone in his previous work place if they wanted to pay him the last 5 months remaining memebership, and use his card in that time, which he said he will do.
he has joined me in my membership at LA Fitness where they had a two for the price of one membership which is excellent so im paying for mine and he can use it free basically
he also spoke to their finance department who said that if he cancels his direct debit they will sent the baliffs round, which is totally obsurd, how can they obtain money from someone who has finished working. its totally mad that they cannot compromise in exceptional circumstances.
its so frustrating!
i hope you manage to get your situation resolved will keep updates on here for any one else in the same predicament!