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My mum and dad were leaving the house to me because of all the help id given them over the years,3 years ago mum told both my sisters what they intended, 1 said she was ok with it and the other said she was ok as long as she got a few thousand pounds.
2 years ago mums health took a bad turn and as she was dads carer she asked me to move in (i was single and no ties) to help look after dad and her,i work full time and working and looking after mum and dad was tiring but i was happy to help,I missed alot of time off work when mum was bad but i had works blessing.
I lost my mum last march she made no will,
Even before mums funeral i caught my two sisters bagering my dad saying did he think it was fair to leave the house to me and not split it 3 ways!Dad replied it had been his and mums intention for a long time.They left in a mood.
After mums death dad went downhill slowly,again i had lots of time off work looking after dad and again with works blessing,
my 2 sisters didnt come round much and if they did it was usually when i wasnt there,
On this day 1 did and as dad had suffered another fall i was off work,she asked if i was going to be off all week and i said yes,then she left,the next 4 days i saw her walk past the house and look into the porch,2 days later a letter arriived for dad (i opened all the mail for dad) and it was regarding my 2 sisters,they had applied for power of attourney!I explained to my dad what it was and he said he didnt remember signing anything like that and i explained what it all meant and if he was happy to go ahead then to do so,he said he didnt want to so it was cancelled,
Their actions forced me to apply for POA which i did,BUT before it was finalised my sister who lives local took my dad to her house to live! while i was at work !They said he wanted to live with them because i didnt look after him properly!!(this was last december) and had mail redirected and my dad ended up cancelling my application for POA,
It came down to the "office of the public guardian" writing a final letter to dad for him to pick who he wanted as POA and he chose my 2 sisters,
I tried to see my dad but my sister said he didnt want to see me,
WIthin a week a letter was pushed through dads door (where i was still living) giving me 20 days to vacate! this was written by 1 of my sisters i recognised the handwriting and signed by her in my dads name,i argued about this with her on the phone then another letter came printed out but signed my my dad.
i decided to leave as i couldnt be bothered with all the hassle and disrespect,
After mums death and my sisters bagering him about the house dad made a will leaving EVERYTHING to me! house/contents/monies/ (this was april last year 2014) In October after things had settled i said to dad i didnt think it was fair to leave me everything so he made another will leaving me the house and splitting and money (50k) 3 ways.(bear in mind the house was morgaged and 55k owed (house worth 100k)
I went to the house picking things up in feb 2015 and 1 of my sisters was there we had a big argument and she let slip dad had made another will leaving me totally out of it he had made this when he had moved to her house)
In March 2015 dad was put in a home where he passed away in may,they wouldnt even tell me which home he was in so i never got to see him before he died.
2 weeks after his death they put the house up for sale! thats when i entered a caveat
A FEW POINTS
1/ I have a letter typed and signed by mum and dad and witnessed a month before mum passed away saying i can live in their house untill they both pass away and that they intend to leave the house to me and also that any time i lose off work looking after either of them they will reimburse me for it.
2/ I have both wills in my posession that dad made.
3/ caveat issued 2 months ago and house has been taken off the market a month ago but as yet no "caveat warning" recieved
Do people think I have a good case? thanks for reading :)