boxers

[harryt]

hello we have just had two blokes move in opposite us, often the bloke will come home from work and strip down to his very tighgt boxers(wouldnt be so bad if he wasnt 20 stone)
he then wonders around the communal car park just in hiss boxers to put the bin out, he will also wonder from his house to our neighbours which is approx 30 meters in just his boxers(they are friends)/
I have to sit in my living room everyday which looks directly onto his front door, and watch him strip and parade around in his boxers! i have a small son which i dont like plying outside when the man is home as i dont want my son to have to see that! there are also some other very small children playing in our street surley he shouldnt be aloud to parade around like that, surly its indecent exposure?

[another-view]

Why do you have to watch him? Sounds a bit weird to me.

He isn't doing any harm. It's not as if he is butt naked.

[harryt]

as my sofa looks onto the window which looks onto his front door! thats why! i am not sat here wanting to watch him! but have no choice

[redcrx]

no indecent exposure unless hes got his bits hanging out is it?

Boxers are no different to shorts or speedos.

OK it may be uncomfortable to see (so was my 30stone neighbour who never wore a bra under tshirts) but you can look away.

[harryt]

try telling a two year old not to look and stare.

[redcrx]

does a 2 year old look and stare at people in shorts?
i have a toddler too and yes he may well stare at something unusual once but unless attention was brought to anything hes not going to take a blind bit of notice after that.

have you just tried asking your neighbour if they wouldnt mind covering up when outside?

[harryt]

I have not written a post to get sarcastic comments off people, it was a genuine questions which has been answered .
Thanks

[harryt]

can u not read the last post, now ****** off and post your useless comment for someone else

[16AFA]

Buy vertical blinds

[redcrx]

harry, perhaps you ought to speak to your local police station and see exactly what they say.

[New Judge]

And they will say "no offence being committed. Sorry. Nothing we can do"

Unless you live in social housing. The landlords may take a different view and might go down the "breach of tenancy regulations" or "Anti-social behaviour" route.

[harryt]

Thanks for that new judge, no it is privately owned property.
Will have to make do with the blinds!

[harryt]

It just goes to show oh- know, how little excitement that you actually have in your life! Having to post stupid comments like that just to make u feel better. to be honest sad, very sad

[harryt]

did i say i watched 24/7 no so get your facts right, grow up and post your child like comments elsewhere.
it was a simple question which i wanted a simple answer for! now get back to your miserable life.

[Ethel]

You seem to have no problem standing up for yourself and making your views known, so why not ask him to at least put some tracksuit bottoms or trousers on before going out in public?

Ask him nicely. :)

[Misbehavin]

1st Harry what is 20 stone & bloke? Not from the UK. I have a suggestion though ask others in the neighborhood how they feel about the boxers as well after expressing your concerns about the kids playing. The real picture is that the kids really shouldn't see a man in his boxers outside his home. Its called indescent exposure! However what one chooses to do in their home is their right and business. If the view isn't appealing to you consider moving your couch or closing your curtains. try not to be in the window if this is something that goes on like clockwork everyday. Reposition yourself during that time of day.