Living will and custody

[tamirra]

Hi, i know this is an awful subject to even talk about but i need some help, my daughter has a little 2 year old girl, she is not with the babies father and he rarely sees her, pays for her or treats her to anything, they are due to go to mediation to see if they can sort access out for him, not that it bothers him if he dosnt see her, but my worry is, if anything should happen to my daughter and she has no will, where would my grand-daughter be taken to live, would it be her usless father or myself and husband, i play a large part in her life, as i look after her while my daughter works, i need advice please on this situation. Thank you.