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Some people who were kind enough to respond, asked if I would update on here. So here I am updating.
It has taken until this week to get get this guy into a court that was prepared to even hear the plea. Twice he was in magistrates locally, but they wouldn't hear it, as they felt it was too serious and needed a district judge. Twice a district judge wasn't available. They then transferred the case to a larger city, where the trial was going to take place anyway, should there be one. It had already taken almost a year to get this to a plea hearing.
The plea was taken, and he pleased not guilty. So there is going to be a trial. The date she's been told is January 2023!! We are assuming that this is going to come down to a matter of consent. There is no doubting what he did, details of which I won't go into, as there is physical evidence of this, (photos and wattsapp messages), as well as other people that were there at the time. But the prosecution has to prove, beyond a reasonable doubt, that he could have reasonably assumed there was consent. If the jury can be convinced that there was consent, then clearly he will be found not guilty. These cases where it comes down to was there consent, wasn't there, are notoriously difficult. My own opinion is that any man of his age, experience and position should not be laying his hands on any girl of 18, even if she was throwing herself at him (which I hasten to add she wasn't!!).
The irony of all this is, the reason she reported him was due to the position he held, and the opportunities he might have had to behave the same way around others, and she didn't want that to be allowed to happen. She was as shocked as anyone when she found they were taking it to a criminal case.
But the law will take its course, I feel though that for cases like this, such a long time is totally unacceptable. For either of them.