worried about my mum

[karmgirl]

She is 51 and a single parent and this year she has had 3 of probably the most stressful situations that could happen to you happen to her. She had a breast cancer scare beginning of the year, her mum died suddenly in May and she has just moved house.

I went to see her at the weekend and told her she needs to take it more easy now but also I noticed like a mole on her arm that hadn't been there before and I told her she should get it checked out but she just shrugged it off and said its finding the time to go to the docs.

I left it there but worried that if I don't nag her she won't get it checked. I am also worried that if I do keep nagging her though, it might put her under more pressure which she doesn't need. I think I am best to nag her to go to docs though even so, what do you all think?

[tombrandy]

Karmgirl, You must tell her again keep nagging,I have had several moles removed ( its painless) but one WAS a non malignant melanoma,Its always getting them checked out, "Come on Mom" do as your daughter tells you.
good luck.