unless the law's changed if he's gone not guilty and if you dont turn up at the trial there is no case! disapear at that time and the prosecution will have to offer no evidence and the case gets dropped! im giving you this advice under the notion that he's not a habitual woman beater and that he goes and gets help with his drinking,drug,anger issues,because if you want a happy peacefull life together,you both have to nip this in the bud now and never let something like this ever happen again! goodluck!