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It's a strange (but not in writing) staff policy that they can put goods 'aside' so by the time it shows up on their statements, they've had 5 weeks' grace or something like that. One bag in the store room contained paid for goods, the other bag (which she gave to her husband by mistake) contained unpaid for goods that she was going to pay for the following month. Yes - the bag of paid for goods was still in the stockroom, and the security guard saw this. However the store seems to have taken a hard line & are pursuing it through the Police.
Her family urged her initially to go for wrongful dismissal, but with her father & everything, she just wanted to put the whole experience behind her - she can't be doing with any more stress at present. Now this....