My daughter-in-law fell out with my son,her husband. The morning after,as often is the case, she wanted to withdraw the prosecution, The CPS,determined to stamp out 'abuse' would not allow her to. They continued with the prosecution even though my d-in-law said she did not want to. You must disabuse yourself of this 'drop the charges ' phrase-that is American law; here,undemocratically, the CPS decides wether or not to prosecute,and they ALWAYS prosecute what are now automatically regarded as guilty abusers-ie men. I would try and tell the authorities that you will not give evidence, tho my d-in-law did that, and they STILL continued the prosecution, no doubt at a horrendous cost to the taxpayer.Michael