Need advice on proving im innocent!

[sheribee]

This may seem unimportant to some, but i really need to do this!
I found out today that my cousin has accused me of stealing money from our grandmothers account in the days after she died ( i didnt!!), i was with my nan when she died, and my cousin had her bank card at this time.
The executers to the will were my cousins dadand his brother (my 2 uncles, my mums brothers) they both believed my cousin that i had stolen this money, i dont know how much was missing and nobody has said anything to me about this, or challenged me. Now this all happened 5 years ago, but i want to clear myname and ensure that if my cousin has stolen this money that she is punished for this.
How can i prove my innocence? Can i involve the police in this matter, if after speaking to my uncle tomorrow that he confirms money was stolen/missing? or is it too late after 5 years?
I do not want to let this go, m nan was everything to me,i was the only one there at the end with her, my cousin went off on holiday (With our nans bank card) a cpl of days before she died. nobody else came when i toldthem she would die astheydidnt believe me. I feel so hurt that anyone could think i could do such a thing! And i want to make sure my whole family know the truth, and find out who took this money, i am prepared to do anything as i am totally innocent!
Thanks in advance everyone xx

[murraymints]

I would go with Rowan...let them know your feelings even in a letter then move on.....

[sheribee]

It just really gets to me that i was the one who was there for her when she needed it, the only one out of about 20 of us!! I do have issues with this cousin whom i have not spoken to for 3years for various other reasons. I know that the 2 uncles believe it was me, and i will be having words with them.
I just want to clear my name, i loved my nan somuch, she brought me up as my mum was always working or busy.
Nobody will believe me over her as she is older( even tho i am 31) and they all believe she cared for our nan when in fact it was me and my cousins husband who did. thats why i know i would need proof.
Ok, so if i cant get the proof then how should i approach the main executor? I dont know what to say or where to start, im so hurt by this and being 37 wks pregnant its really stressing me out, makes me sick anyone could think that i would do such an awful awful thing!!
My cousin is for want of a better word insane, she has hallucinations and hears voices that tell her to kill people... a letter from a solicitor would make no impact on her whatsoever. I would truely want to see her punished for doing this to ur nan, taking her money after she died is an ultimate betrayal, i just wish there was some way i could prove it was her!!