Ftm

[SassyManson]

when i was around 4/5 i was girly but now i am 15 and i can't stand girly things i would like short hair (i hate long hair) i have never wanted breasts (it took 3 years for my mum to get me to wear a bra i only agreed because i was now a 38DD) i tried to bind my breast the other day (that same evening i burst into tears and had a complete meltdown then i ran away). i don't like my feminine curves and hips i recently have started crying because of my body (mainly hips & breasts). i don't like having periods. i would really like facial hair and more body hair e.g. chest and a mans muscular body, but not necessarily a penis (although i like to pack) i would love to be seen a one of the boys. i wear more boyish clothes including my brothers boxers i Don't liked anything girly i have panic attacks when forced by my mum to wear a dress or skirt and (today i went clothes shopping with my mum and i hated it she only let me look at the girls clothing not the boys i almost burst into tears for that reason) i don't relate to girls or understand why girls like make up or worry about their looks and other "girl things", but do relate to boys and understand why they like sport and cars and all the other "boy things". when i was young i really wanted to pee standing up (because i couldn't i just wet myself instead of going home to the loo) also i asked my dad why are some of us girls and others boys and he said before you are born you decide if you want to be a boy or a girl, i didn't really believe him because i was thinking that can't be true there is no way i would have chosen to be a girl. once at a friends party the mum had bought princess plates and cups to eat of and i refused to eat my food from the plate, so the mum had to go and get my a football plate and cup to calm me down. i don't identify as female but not sure if i fully identify as male. i would really like some advice

P.S my mum won't Even accept the i am not femme never mind the fact i think i might be male.

[jackthehat]

Today's post is almost word for word a duplicate of this one:

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Society-and-Culture/Question1256648.html

You got some useful answers...

[Mosaic]

yes - JTh has it.
FGS we are not impressed, distressed or even mildly put out by gender spectrum issues.
If you are a weirdo, get help.
If you are gender confused, get help.
Posting random stuff under multiple identities is just plain daft.

[woofgang]

Did you not post this once already?
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Society-and-Culture/Question1256648.html

[B00]

What's ftm?

[daffy654]

Female to Male B00

[jackthehat]

Female to Male, B00.

[B00]

Ahhhh! Cheers Daffy, saw it said on the other post and was puzzled then as well.

[B00]

And Jack :-)

[jomifl]

Perhaps you are just going through a phase of gender denial. It does happen to some people at puberty when their mind hasn't caught up with their hormones. Give it a year or two and you will probably see it a lot differently.

[boxtops]

Sassy's 15 - several girls are still at the tomboy stage then. I think her mum's being a bid hard on her. I know several girls of her age who dress like a lad and prefer football (my niece still plays rugby and she's an adult).

Sassy, what your dad told you about why you're a girl is a load of rubbish, the baby has nothing to do with it. It's to do with chromosomes.

[SassyManson]

boxtops i know its a oad of rubbish but when i was young and dumb i thohgt it was true and just thoght well if thats the case why the flump did i choose girl.
and btw i use the name sassy coz my real name is saskia and i am not sure of a male name to use yet i have som ideas sean, shane, chad and dan. shane is my fave any other name ideas will be welcome also another thing i forgot to mention is that when my gender expression is more femminie i feel even more strongly about wanting a male body

[boxtops]

sassy, it would be much easier if you just answered on one thread - people are answering on both of them, I don't know why you posted this twice.

[Connemmara]

give yourself more time to know your real gender - I know right now you think you know it all but you don't. Time will tell.