bullies?

[cas23]

I posted a question yesterday and got a real bad response. The question I posted promted me to question the reasons for what I am doing and the reasons for what the other man is doing so I posted a picture and asked for an honest opinion, I got a lot of rude and abusive responses to this when I really did want an honest opinion of yes you are ok or noyou are noting special. This mornign I have read all the answers and to be honest I wouldn't have minded had you all said no, sorry, not my cup of tea, but you (most of you) were nasty about this and I probably feel 10 times more insecure now than I ever have!

[redcrx]

I havnt been on here for a couple of days so have not seen your posts.
But what on earth posessed you to post a pic on here and ask for opions on what you looked like? Sorry, but an anonymous site like this is bound to throw up some strange and unusual answers.
My advice to you, is to learn from your mistake and not to dwell on it. Starting a thread like this could lead to more problems.

[divegirl]

Hi, if yo're feeling more insecure than ever....Why have you come back for more?

[Eric Git]

Hi Cas,

I've just read your questions from yesterday and in answer to the first one of why don't you feel guilty, it's because you are young and don't really know the consequences yet,(and I'm not being condersending, at 23 I thought I new everything, 14 yrs later and I now know I don't know everything but I'm getting there), as for are you pretty, well I suppose you are, but I would lose the makeup, from an honest point of view, it makes you look like every other girl from 12 - 29 and the older you get the more it will make you look like you're trying to look young, a bit like mutton dressed as lamb, so to speak, go for a more natural look , let your skin breathe, I think you'll look better and will probably be taken more seriously. as for peaople being nasty, well it takes all sorts to make a world, just ask yourself this question, Are they able to steal my birthday or impregnate me with an elephant? the answer, is NO of course they're not, so why worry that they are nasty?

[cas23]

thanks eric git. I have a proffesional job and do not waer make up to work. The photo I posted was taken about 6 months ago on my birthday so that's why I had lots of make up on. Thanks for you answer. x

[Shells7]

Hi, I don't come on here often but I have read your message and the replies. It seems to me like there are a lot of people on here that enjoy being nasty and judgemental - my advice would be not to ask an opinion on things like looks. If you are insecure, getting people to comment on your photo probably isn't going to help, I think you need to look a bit deeper than that. But try not to be down about what people have said, they are speaking their mind and not bothered if it hurts your feelings. I don't mean to slag people off on here, just that some people seem quite harsh and it's not very nice to see.

[4getmenot]

First of all you said I'm seeing a married man yer its just for sex, then we get a picture asking if you're pretty???? which I wasnt nasty about but could have been as whats it matter what anyone looks like and then a question saying is he just using me when you'd already said its just for sex. We are all nice on here but these questions were a bit pathetic so expect some of the others answers you got. And yes if you are feeling insecure then you've opened a big can of worms on this posting this one.

[redcrx]

ok, ive read it now.

You did not say you wanted just a yes or no answer.

you said "I just want honesty"
"dont bite your liup, this isnt a cry for compliments, I really do want honest answers"

then when people gave honest answers, you started calling them nasty and THEN said you wanted "yes youre pretty or no youre not"

seems like you think you are pretty and couldnt take the reality of how others may see you.

[cas23]

not at all! but the comments were personal and I believe there are ways of saying something without appearing rude and nasty

[-Zorro-]

sorry...I was guilty of reposting your pic with a Hitler moustache...very childish of me

[4getmenot]

and any insecure person would not post a picture of themselves in the first place. You wanted all the 'oh look at you you're gorgeous' but sorry you didnt get that. Beauty comes from within and your first posts didnt show any beauty saying that you dont feel guilt for sleeping with another womans wife behind your blokes back. That is my honest opinion as to why you were then set upon by other abers.

[-Zorro-]

but to be fair....I said that id sh@g you

[cascarelli]

Are you Russian?

[Pippa68]

I don't understand this one.

cas is complaining of people being nasty when she is sleeping with a married man?

As I said yesterday, if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen..do not post on a public forum and expect everyone to be sweetness & light ~ especially when you post Qs like you have.

[4getmenot]

and hey we all gave honest opions on bob the turkey too and he's ok :-)

[redcrx]

my thoughts exactly pippa,
has the original post about the married man been banned? I cant find it

[Eric Git]

Cas, why are you seeing a guy who's 20yrs your senior, it can't just be for sex, as you're young and look like you enjoy yourself, so could probably get as much sex as you wanted, are you feeling or feel the need to be wanted? No I'm not being nasty, but looking back on the questions that you have posted, I'm wondering if you've been insecure for a long time and need a confidence boost? It's nothing to be ashamed of, we all need confidence boosts from time to time. If it's the case, then why not pamper yourself and go to a spa for a day or two, you'll be amazed at how you feel after, and if you can ditch the older man, as i suspect he's getting more out of it than you are, and I think you're better than that.

[4getmenot]

yes I think wardy eventually made it go with all the cement mixer stuff.

[Pippa68]

Hi red!

yes, the original Q was banned ~ posts were banned first, then the whole thread went.

cas asked why she didn't feel guilty about sleeping with a married man, and she stated she didn't feel guilty about cheating on her boyfriend either.