law on a child

[james12]

i was with my ex for 3 years we have a 2month old son we split now and i took my son i had a court order to take him bk but i took him bk befor the order she now has temper redancey order and i just woundering if i shud go for vists or permant custardy i am 23 she is 17 i live at home with parents sow dose she but she has a flat as she cnt affored to live there i have rased him from him bein born as she had to go back to skool as she was a young mum and she also gose collage full time so i have to look afther him but since the split she still goses collage an my so is passed around from her sister to her mum i just wounder wether i staned a chance at gettin custerdy any help will be great thanx

[jno]

the court will want what's best for the child, not for his parents. Theere generally appears to be a bias in favour of mothers over fathers, so don't get your hopes up.

[ojread2]

Do you know what EDDIE51? The poster says she is the one in school/college. I think he should join her! Spelling, grammar and punctuation classes as a first port of call.

As for the child, yes there is generally a bias toward the mother, even when the mother appears to be a bad one. However, I'm not quite sure exactly what the OP means by him having an order and that he took him back before it ended? A visitation order maybe? Did he return the child before his allotted time written on the order?

OP, is your name on the birth certificate?

[sara3]

http://www.theanswerb...w/Question872281.html

you forgot to say that she'd stabbed you.

[sara3]

and on this post you were 24

http://www.theanswerb...w/Question872281.html

[B00]

Oooo sara, you little tinker ;-)

[sara3]

B00, I invested so much in trying to understand the question, I thought it was worthwhile looking in to!

she stabbed him, but he didn't turn up to give evidence, but then he regretted it. I think.

one for Graham and the Aftercare Team, methinks.

[B00]

The sad thing is, if all this is true, there's a child involved. What a wonderful environment for him to grow up in!

[sara3]

I know.. very Jeremy Kyle-esque :o/

[B00]

innit?

(see what I did there? I'm down with the 'yoof' speak)

[sara3]

naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa' Imeeeeeeeeeeeeeen?

(know what I mean?)

[ummmm]

Well well well....

[brenda]

All sounds like a sad and desperate life for yet another child to me.

[another-view]

yo jamez dunt lissen 2 theese i wud tri 2 go 4 vissitz 2 strt wiv n if dat goez ok den y not ask 4 ful custerday coz it sounz lyk u wud b bettr 4 da kid den she iz.

[james12]

thanxz anotherview i have bad spelling sorry ppeople

[mike11111]

The word 'custody' (no matter how you may care to spell it) is no longer used. You need to apply for a residence order, for which purpose I suggest you contact a Family Law solicitor.