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yes we( me and my sister) are doing it joint and there has to be 2 witnesses which have to go round to my dads to make sure he knows what we are doing so that the witneses can say yes blah blah that my dad has all his faciltys and knows what is happening.......
brother in law is doing the same for his mother and having my husband as second in line for that,,,,, but he is adamant that its not having to go through the court, aparently he had the solicitor go round to his mothers but he didnt want my husband to be there.... but if anything goes wrong he always comes running to us to sort the mess out and then take credit for it himself