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He Wants To Get To Know Me Better But Can't Be In A Serious Relationship Right Now

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heyheythere | 23:14 Mon 27th Jan 2014 | Society & Culture
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One of my friends set me up with this guy and we went out once. I thought it went pretty well even though we didn't talk much because we saw a movie. A few days after the date he told me that he wanted to get to know me better but right now he can't be in a serious relationship. I don't have his number but we're friends on Facebook so should I message him? If so, what should I say? I don't want him to think I'm trying to date him because obviously he's not ready for that. I just want to talk so we can become friends and eventually maybe date.
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Just post on his comments. You'll soon see if you have a similar sense of humour.
If it were me I would leave next move up to him. If he has made an excuse for now then wait until he is ready.
He's just not that in to you. Move away. Look elsewhere.
// A few days after the date he told me that he wanted to get to know me better but right now he can't be in a serious relationship. //

Sounds to me like he wants a casual affair. Forget it.

WR.
A casual affair with someone who hasn't even got his number...
You are keener on him, than he is on you.

This could easily change.

Why not contact him on Facebook............no big deal.
has he just come out of a big relationship?
if so he may just need time to get his head together - make the odd comment on his posts - not loads and and not just anything, also 'like' the odd thing, but not many so it doesnt look like you are prowling his page, but maybe wait a bit see if he contacts you = at leats then you will know if he likes you

if he doesn't maybe send him a neutral 'hi' type message and see what he says.

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