“We value virtue but do not discuss it. The honest bookkeeper, the faithful wife, the earnest scholar get little of our attention compared to the embezzler, the tramp, the cheat.”
John Steinbeck
v_e; I don't know if you should marry (wouldn't that be bigamy?), but I've just discovered this, which contains a key to the meaning of life, viz; Having a dream and making it come true, as you can witness on Stan's face at 5:41 . Hurricane Irma's got nothing on this.
I have always understood that if first cousins marry, there is a much higher risk of their children having medical problems. There was something on tv not too long ago about Indian families who have this tradition having children with problems. I suppose those whose children don't have problems are very lucky.