Does size really matter??

[kazzianne]

Pls dont ban this - genuine question!

Does 'size' really matter to you girls,and you know what im talking about! Or do you prefer quality over quantity?

Guys - what do you think about this?Do you feel under pressure?

[stylinsam]

i think size does matter in some cases but it is really what he can do with his tackle that really matters. people have different aspects on what is big and what is small there isnt a handbook that says you have to have a **** this long or than small. so everyone is individual in there own ways.

[Pippa68]

In a word ~ no. Nookie isn't all about penetration..and in my experience it has been the *bigger* members that have been not so good at it.

All that banging...*shudder* be imaginative!

What is considered big or small anyway? I guess it's down to personal preference :o)

[jno]

have you considered asking males the same question about women?

[laurence2]

sam, in some cases ''it does matter''

Are their special cases for certain women then? or are you referring to the pee wee type?

[milly143]

It does to a certain extent but it's how it's used that's really important!

[stylinsam]

well if its really really small then obviously he will have to do some pretty good performance to make up 4 it

[Pippa68]

It's worth remembering that womens 'tunnels' (for want of a better word ;o) are about 6 inches long.

This must mean that anything longer than that is gonna be near on impossible to get in..of course if you are smaller then it's ok.

Of course if we are talking about width..

Now I am gonna go and have a cold shower.

[helliebobs]

Believe me, big isn't everything!!!

[Octavius]

Perhaps size matters more to men than it does women.

[Champagne]

Size definitely matters!! But it's not a case of 'bigger is better'. Actually, the best shape/size for giving women pleasure and increasing chance of orgasm is 'short & stubby', i.e. it's girth that's important.

I agree with Pippa, there are so many other things to consider aside from actual penetration, so it does boil down to how creative you are as a couple. I like a man who has a good repertoire inthe bedroom.

[kazzianne]

Personally,I agree totally with Champagne,girth is more important than length.Too long and it gets downright uncomfy!!

And as jno quite rightly said,women are all different sizes 'down there' too.!

[spaced]

not blowing my own trumpet (excuse the pun), but I have never had a problem as I am ok in that department. But, it shouldnt matter really, its not about size, but what you can do with it.

In general, form a blokes point of view, women do not like huge tackles anyway.

[Frankie Babe]

Size certainly matters to me. I'm really not keen on the biggies. Obviously I don't want a Napoleon lookalike but its would have to be really tiny for me not to notice where it had gone! :o) Anyway in my experience not only do the big ones often hurt but the fella attached to the other end is usually lazy and unimaginative. The ones that think theirs are smaller than average put a lot more effort into it and pay more attention to other areas. Now, how long they last, that's a different matter...... ;o) LOL!

[Cymbeline]

Octavius has hit the nail on the head. I think size matters more to men than it does to women. In fact most insecurities are like that. You can guarantee that a woman will be far more concerned with her own insecurities to even notice her partner's. Most decent people will be really sensitive to these concerns. To prove this point..how many men out there are shocked and mortified to hear that I once had a partner who (after we had sex for the first time) said: " I think you might be too wide for me?".

[Cymbeline]

And according to a nurse friend of mine women's width differs by 3mm across the board and after childbirth this goes up to 5mm. Still not a lot.

[Octavius]

Yes, insecurities hits the spot, shall we say.

Men who need to talk about it are either lying or self-obsessed, and women who like "bigguns" must have a bucket. Now thats not true is it.

Not every penny fits the slot said... someone famous. My wife and I fit together perfectly, the only time I feel under pressure is when she wants to go again straight away!

[peterd]

when asked how big it is guys just reply "big enough to fill a pram"

[malaise]

Normal does it for me. Maybe a little on the girthy side, but whatever. It's the technique that counts.

Jno is right - Do men have this discussion about the size of womens vaginas? Do men care?

And bloody hell, whoever said vaginas were 6" long, JEEZ! In that case I must be abnormally small.

[kazzianne]

cymbeline - I cant believe a guy had the nerve to say that to you!! God,what on earth did you say?

[Octavius]

To exemplify my (1st) point above, there was a programme on TV recently about a guy who had plastic surgery to improve his girth. The technique involved applying rejuvenated skin - from a dead person - under the foreskin to �thicken� the layers. I can�t imagine any woman requiring a man to go to that extent, and even if he did, wanting it going anywhere near them afterwards!