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Heartbreak...
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Sorry to dampen anyoones sunday but... I wanted to get advice from outsiders, my friends all have opinions and what not but i feel like i need to hear it from outsiders.
So ive been with myq boyfriend since july last year. We have an absolutely amazing bond. We're so close and spend about 5 days out of 7 together, really miss each other when we're not together etc...
But...he has terrible moodswings especially when he's been drinking. Weve broken up so many times before but it tends to be over silly srguments and both of us are very stubborn and strong willed so it tends to just make an argument worse. Last night we had an argument he stormed off down the pub and i had a feeling he'd be there so i went down. At first he was mad then we had quite a good night but on going home he kicked off again and we had a war of words and now he says the relationship is dead to him and hasnt spoken since 3am this morning. My head thinks the sensible thing to do is walk away but he's my first love, first boyfriend, my best friend and i think i'll go crazy not being eith him. Is it best to walk away or do i give him time to come to his senses? He normally does but i'm not sure this time...thanks for any advice
So ive been with myq boyfriend since july last year. We have an absolutely amazing bond. We're so close and spend about 5 days out of 7 together, really miss each other when we're not together etc...
But...he has terrible moodswings especially when he's been drinking. Weve broken up so many times before but it tends to be over silly srguments and both of us are very stubborn and strong willed so it tends to just make an argument worse. Last night we had an argument he stormed off down the pub and i had a feeling he'd be there so i went down. At first he was mad then we had quite a good night but on going home he kicked off again and we had a war of words and now he says the relationship is dead to him and hasnt spoken since 3am this morning. My head thinks the sensible thing to do is walk away but he's my first love, first boyfriend, my best friend and i think i'll go crazy not being eith him. Is it best to walk away or do i give him time to come to his senses? He normally does but i'm not sure this time...thanks for any advice
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He may be your first love and you will always have a soft-spot for him, but it is time to walk away.
You won't go crazy without him in your life, it might feel like that for a while, but it will fade.
A stranger is a friend you haven't yet met :-) xx
He may be your first love and you will always have a soft-spot for him, but it is time to walk away.
You won't go crazy without him in your life, it might feel like that for a while, but it will fade.
A stranger is a friend you haven't yet met :-) xx
And from what I've witnessed abusive relationships are addictive to some. It's like they are addicted to the adrenaline rush they get from arguing with other.
Get out while you can and realise that although soulmates fall out occasionally they don't break up a relationship and they certainly don't hit each other.
Get out while you can and realise that although soulmates fall out occasionally they don't break up a relationship and they certainly don't hit each other.