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[Rainbowkitty]

Yes I do ask him now and then but he still says no but he use to want to take pictures with me all the time and I didn't even have to ask him those times he would just grab my phone and he would just start taking selfies with me... I'm sorry it's just I don't know if he thinks I'm pretty anymore and I feel like he doesn't want people to see how I look like I just want to make memories with him thats all... And there's not one photo I have of us in a picture frame... And my parents always question our relationship because he has anger issues and everytime I talk him about things on the phone via text... I asked him if he could book a therapy session with someone because my family puts stress on me but he said I'm fine I don't need to go and I told him I do not because of us but my family then he cursed at me saying I'm working I don't need this right now so **** off and that really hurt me and he always seems to curse at me when he very angry I'm always in a mood because of this... And he also gets upset when I'm in a mood and doesn't bother to comfort me especially when I cry about something that happened...

[Old_Geezer]

If you don't stop creating new threads on the same subject I can see you being defined as a spammer. Keep to one or risk being banned.

[Tuvok]

You don't need to start a new topic for your replies, just add it to your original question.

[woofgang]

two words. Dump him.

[Baldric]

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1652333.html

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1652343.html

[maggiebee]

Get a life springs to mind.

[nicebloke1]

Have a sausage sandwich and all will be fine.

[spathiphyllum]

If you're in an adult relationship he may see your constant desire for selfies as rather immature and he may think you see your relationship as superficial rather than meaningful.


Be content in your relationship and stop the desire for photos and rather immature ideas of if he loves you or not.

[DarceyK123]

Doubt this is an adult relationship Spath sounds like kids/teenagers to me.

[Calicogirl]

Okay lots more issues here than him not taking selfies. You being pretty or not is irrelevant, i'm not the prettiest girl Mr Cal has access to by a country mile, do I care? No because that's not what is important, I try to stay nice within normal understandings of the word but I don't wear make up all the time or work out like a banshee to look like a twig because those things are not why someone should love you and if they are you've lost nothing. Nothing at all. so quite worrying about that (and besides confidence is sexy so like yourself).
He might have anger issues but nagging him about getting help he's not ready to get won't work or help your relationship. He's knee jerkingly telling you to f*** off because to him you are finding fault with him and criticising him, and if you say 'my family says...' that the same thing x 10, so if I were you take the lead, don't be upset, stay calm, level, don't nag and see how things go for a few weeks. If things don't improve or are worse, consider your options, but really this all sounds like a lot of misinformation, lack of communication and a bit of a storm in a teacup. If you love each other you'll find a way x