Atheist - // Eleanor; Being not very nice is not meant to be an insult, it's just what ambitious young men with pushy wives do to achieve their aims. If only I had done the same! //
I disagree - ambition does not automatically include an unpleasant personality, which Bolan defintely was.
John Peel in particular was deeply hurt when, after his much-needed support to Tyranosaurus Rex in the early days, including insisting on them being taken as a support act with his roadshow for university and college gigs, Bolan blanked him when he was famous.
Peel recounts in his autobiography that, having rung Bolan's flat and asking to speak to him, Peel heard Bolan's voice say "Tell him I'm not in." and they never spoke again.
The experience hurt Peel so much that he vowed that he would never become personally close to any musician ever again, and he never did.
Even his relationship with Mark E Smith, whose Fall band Peel worshipped like no other, ever, was confined to stilted chats on the few occasions they met, and as a mark of real connection as far as Peel went with musicians, an occasional manly punch on the shoulder.