That was then, this is now, instead of bringing up the past like yesterday's stale beer and kebab, maybe we should try to unite behind the idea the country is in the brown stuff and if we all work in the same direction we have a better chance of getting out. If only things were different is a waste of energy. Sometimes like it or not you have to deal with reality, even if you don't agree. That means to me, only using services when you really need them, working if you can, volunteering if you can't, and if you can do neither, maybe supporting those who do.