dotty
/// if you're going to start picking the bones over that aog don't start cos i don't accept criticism when it's an inherant belief stemming from my upbringing that I can't change nor would want to. ///
I am not picking bones as you so aggressively put, and I am sorry that you don't accept criticism, you have chosen to come on this thread so you must be prepared to accept criticism, I and all other ABers have to be prepared to, why should you be any different?
To get back on course, yes I was also brought up to respect females and I still do, but thanks to 'Women's Lib' and 'Sex equality' one has to be so careful, these days.
Just try saying women should not be in that kind of job, because it is far too dangerous for them, or try holding a door open for some females these days.
I am not saying that sex equality isn't a good thing in some ways, but by the very fact of the physical differences etc etc, in some things the sexes can never be truly equal.
I apologise Ric.ror for going off track at such a very sad time, but I just had to address dotty's curt reply to what was after all a genuine question based on her statement.