aog, is your understanding of the proverb, "Charity begins at home", "Giving to charity must be to the benefit of people in your own country before you give to the benefit of foreigners " ? So, if I were to give to Oxfam, I should give the money to any British charity benefiting Britons; Guide Dogs for the Blind, say; first, and only give what was left over to relieve starvation outside Britain? On that principle, it might, or must, follow that no money from here would ever benefit any foreigner.Only until every charitable need here was satisfied, would donors feel free to give to the benefit of foreigners
If so, you may have misunderstood 'charity' and the proverb, which was originally " Charity should begin at himself" [John Wycliff "To Prelates", in the C14] You should not allow yourself to suffer whilst relieving the same suffering in others.