i wasn't going to comment but here is the thing, nothing but nothing is worse than bereavement, but when you have spent a lifetime in one place, have invested all your capital or most you had to spare in its upkeep and indeed added to it's value, because the council didn't, then i would find it hard to leave. So after losing o/h, job, and indeed much more, which you don't know about, nor do i intend speaking about on here, to be thought of as some seem to, a benefit scrounger, and one who should vacate the property or get another job seems to me missing some points, one of the most important being what kind of job, where and how will i earn enough at this stage of my life to pay for it all, answer of course is i won't. I have worked in various fields, one for a large corporation, where ageism, sexism existed, believe me when i say that i doubt very much that has really changed. Even in my 40's i was told i was too old, over qualified, for any of the 100's of jobs i applied for. Most don't even tell you, but having worked for agencies i know how it works. I just love the fact that homes and jobs are so readily available. If that's the case why are there over 2 million unemployed.