i think that women can be extremely competitive, big problem occurs in a male dominated society which is what we have had for far too long. Competition in work seems to be a dirty phrase for some, and sadly women have to be supposedly better than the men to succeed, thus getting labels like ball breakers, hard faced and worse, been there and seen it for myself. women have been the chief homemakers for the very reason men have successfully taken a back seat all these years, and though it is undoubtedly true that women are seen as nurturers, not all are, many want a damn sight more out of life than just churning out children and being content. If they want that solely there is nothing stopping them, however these questions don't arise when put to men or about them, no one expects them to be stay at home dads whilst the wife works, a rather one sided viewpoint.