> I stand 4-square behind the baker's decision not to go against his conscience, which may be hard for you to understand, but unless more people have the courage of their convictions, society is IMO sleepwalking into meltdown.
That's fine, I do understand conscientious decisions. Unfortunately for you, and the baker, such decisions of conscience / belief / opinion / prejudice / intolerance [delete as applicable] are not aligned with the law of the land, particularly when it comes to running a business.
> Ellipsis, The point is people of religion are allowed to discriminate with impunity - but not if the customer is gay.
No, I think if the bakery had supplied the cake, perhaps decorated by somebody who didn't hold their religious convictions, they would not have had a problem. Similarly, if a supermarket sells you alcohol (or chooses not to stock it), or a pharmacist sells you contraception (or chooses not to stock it), that's also OK - and different to this case where the baker sold cakes, but nobody in the business was prepared to sell a cake to this customer.