Is It Illegal To Send A Nasty Birthday Card

[gordiescotland1]

Somebody really hurt me by damaging my reputation and spreading lies about me it has caused me great pain over a year unable to get over it. I know she has a special birthday coming up over the next few weeks and I wanted to send her a sympathy card instead of a birthday card saying that I hope unhappiness, misery and bad luck and ill health will become her over the next year for all the pain she has caused others, I know of 2 more people she has hurt badly. I know its not very nice but it will get it out of my system, it may mar her day slightly that is a postiive for me or it may not but I just want to make sure it is not illegal I dont see how it could be it surely is not illegal to wish you someone ill if you have no intention of doing it to yourself. But i would not do it if it was illegal Im paying enough with my own bitterness without paying other ways.

[Bathsheba]

Oh gordie, please don't x x

[EcclesCake]

That would be a nasty, vindictive thing to do.

Rise above it rather than lowering yourself.

[Mamyalynne]

I would write it, read it then burn it - put it behind you.

[FrogNog]

Don't do that.
Be the better person

[Retrochic]

Gordie I know how you feel because my SIL is a horrible vile person and I've often wanted to do something similar but don't. Rise above it and ignore the person -if you don't, this hatred will gnaw away at you and she will further cause you stress. Try and forget what she's done and move on knowing you are a better person.

[yogi-bear]

One day you'll regret sending it.....dont do it.....and know that you're better than that, gordie.

[jennyjoan]

Just move on - we all have had vile things happen - that's life - you're a better person than the person you are talking about. Good luck and be happy - just like me LOL

[gordiescotland1]

I will try to let this go I will try very hard but I dont see honestly how sending it could be illegal

[Psybbo]

No birthday card at all, Gordie and maybe her lack of cards will make her think!

[EcclesCake]

Malicious Communicarions Act 1988......that is how it would be illegal.

[Mamyalynne]

Ignoring the legality for a moment - do you really want to be classed as nasty as she is?

Because that is all you will be doing.

[237SJ]

http://www.harassmentlaw.co.uk/comm.htm

[Bathsheba]

Nobody's saying it's illegal love, but like everyone says,...be the bigger person + just do nothing.

x x

[DTCwordfan]

could send her a voodoo doll or a stick of dynamite?

[Bathsheba]

oops,.....I see I should've refreshed screen before I typed......:(

x x

[jennyjoan]

DT that made me laugh

[cassa333]

having just read your thread about the sermon at church this Sunday and of him addressing you about being confrontational, I can see why the minister said what he said!

[Canary42]

You would be behaving very stupidly, aligning your behaviour with hers. Please don't do it.

[tamborine]

Eat an ice lolly & send them the stick to shove up where the sun dont shine ;)

[SlackAlice]

I might not send her a birthday card but I could quite easily send her wreath.

Generally, I would just put her on to my 'Ignore' list.