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Lewis Hamilton Denied Access To The Wimbledon's Royal Box For Not Wearing A Jacket And Tie.
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What has this got to do with Lineker, rules are rules?
Apart from that, why should Hamilton be invited into the Royal Box anyway?
What has this got to do with Lineker, rules are rules?
Apart from that, why should Hamilton be invited into the Royal Box anyway?
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jourdain2 - //I don't 'do' dress codes. I dress as I like.//
That statement smacks of self-assurance, but it borders on insensitivity.
Dress codes are created for a variety of reasons, usually to ensure that no-one is embarrassed by being dressed inappropriately, and also as a courtesy to other attendees who have made the effort out of consideration.
To simply refuse to conform may feel like a statement of individuality, but in these instances, it comes across as discourtesy, or - as in Mr Hamilton's case - inadvertently ignoring convention which has been advised in advance.
That statement smacks of self-assurance, but it borders on insensitivity.
Dress codes are created for a variety of reasons, usually to ensure that no-one is embarrassed by being dressed inappropriately, and also as a courtesy to other attendees who have made the effort out of consideration.
To simply refuse to conform may feel like a statement of individuality, but in these instances, it comes across as discourtesy, or - as in Mr Hamilton's case - inadvertently ignoring convention which has been advised in advance.
ummmm - //But Jordain said she doesn't go anywhere where dress codes rule. //
A fair point, but I think that to restrict your social life in order to make a point is rather limiting, but since Jordain is happy with it, then obviously she has not problem.
The only time I come across the issue is when we go on cruises, and there are formal dress codes for dinner on appointed evenings, which are advised in advance.
There are plenty of informal restaurants on board where people who do not wish to dress for dinner can dine, so it annoys me when some people turn up and flout the dress code, and loudly proclaim that they are doing so because 'no-one tells me what to wear ...' or similar pronouncements.
In my view, this shows both arrogance and ignorance, and I am often annoyed that the staff allow these individuals into the dining room, which rather makes a mockery of the dress code - they should be refused and advised to return in appropriate attire, or dine elsewhere.
A fair point, but I think that to restrict your social life in order to make a point is rather limiting, but since Jordain is happy with it, then obviously she has not problem.
The only time I come across the issue is when we go on cruises, and there are formal dress codes for dinner on appointed evenings, which are advised in advance.
There are plenty of informal restaurants on board where people who do not wish to dress for dinner can dine, so it annoys me when some people turn up and flout the dress code, and loudly proclaim that they are doing so because 'no-one tells me what to wear ...' or similar pronouncements.
In my view, this shows both arrogance and ignorance, and I am often annoyed that the staff allow these individuals into the dining room, which rather makes a mockery of the dress code - they should be refused and advised to return in appropriate attire, or dine elsewhere.
andy // A fair point, but I think that to restrict your social life in order to make a point is rather limiting, //
She's not doing it to make a point though, she's doing it because she doesn't want to dress to someone elses code, which is fine because she's not saying they're wrong for having a code, just that she doesn't want to follow it. She stays away from those places without making a fuss. Completely commendable.
Dress codes are neither right or wrong, they're just rules. If you're happy to obey them, great. If you're not - also great, but don't go to the places that have them with the intention of flouting them.
I completely agree with your last two paragraphs above.
She's not doing it to make a point though, she's doing it because she doesn't want to dress to someone elses code, which is fine because she's not saying they're wrong for having a code, just that she doesn't want to follow it. She stays away from those places without making a fuss. Completely commendable.
Dress codes are neither right or wrong, they're just rules. If you're happy to obey them, great. If you're not - also great, but don't go to the places that have them with the intention of flouting them.
I completely agree with your last two paragraphs above.
I don't think it's snobbery, PankySmooch. It's one of the traditions of British summer sport; like Henley, the Ladies' Day at Ascot or whatever, and those sports all have their posh areas where people abide by a dress code.
I'm not slating Hamilton at all. He always looks good and am surprised he didn't turn up in the correct clothes, but he didn't make a fuss and went to watch the tennis in another area.
I'm not slating Hamilton at all. He always looks good and am surprised he didn't turn up in the correct clothes, but he didn't make a fuss and went to watch the tennis in another area.
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