kvalidir - // Andy, referencing the video I posted, it's not hard to understand at all, most of the younger teens I know have seen it, yes in Britain, shock horror, and yes they fully understood it. //
That is something of a sweeping statement. Because you and teenagers you know understand it does not make it a fact that it is easy to understand - anymore than my view of its difficulty makes it difficult. Each are opinions, yours and mine, to which we are entitled.
Children and teenagers are a lot savvier and more sophisticated in their reasoning that you seem to imagine, they don't watch Pinky and Perky you know, and I've yet to meet anyone ( except you) who has struggled with that video at all. //
Thanks for the heads up on that. I have a wife and three children who work in education, and I have six grandchildren, so I do have an inkling of what children and teenagers watch.
//I am possibly thre least naieve person you have ever met, raising people to have self respect is not simply a matter of how they are treated by their parents, but by wider society as a whole, that is what I meant by 'educating our children'. //
Once again an opinion unsupported by any evidence whatsoever, and I do understand that education is not confined to the classroom - I have enough life experience to know that, but thanks again for pointing it out.
// With regard to me not knowing you, no I don't or wish to, but that does not mean that I cannot judge you on your words and then on your backtracking. //
My reference to you 'knowing me' referred to knowing me on here, and as a relative newcomer, I accept that you are not familiar with me as a person in the way that other more seasoned AB'ers are. In terms of you not wishing to know me, that is your choice of course. Of course you can judge me on my posts, although I would deny that clarification is the same as 'backtracking' - but be aware that judgement is a two-way street.
As to appearing wracked with Catholic guilt, jolly good job you are an atheist, because otherwise you'd be in danger of coming across as the most pious being in existence, I have rarely seem anyone so judgmental in such a passive aggressive way. Nothing you have said has convinced me that you are not victim blaming here, sorry if you don't like that, but I think you need to re-examine the way you thing it's fine to express your views relentlessly and essentially try to turn thing around on anyone who dares call you on. //
I do not turn anything round on anyone who 'dares to call me on' as you put it.
I have and will always defend my view against any criticism, although as I have said, criticism is a two-way street as well.