I Wonder Why This Number Is Rising So...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Show remorse for your actions if it gets to court, your solicitor should make the case for self defence/ protecting your girlfriend. You say accused, have you actually been charged? Do you have witnesses that will collaborate your story, other than your girlfriend? I would try not to worry about it too much, it could have affected an army career, but you say you're coming out soon anyway.
I don't advocate violence, and we only have your side of the story, but i do understand that sometimes it is inevitable.
Again, a solicitor should be able to tell you exactly what to do - maybe your girlfriend should press charges for the assault on her - did she go to hospital? is there any record of her assault? However, going to court is lengthy and stressful.
I do wish you luck, but next time think twice eh x
Chris - I'm sure you have the intelligence to ignore post 18. for god's sake don't go and beat the guy up to "persuade" him not to go to court. This isn't Eastenders, this is real life... as well you know! The best thing you can do now, is to keep your head down, get a lawyer, probably plead guilty, show that you're sorry and say you'll never do it again, and then accept the sentence (assuming your lawyer feels it's fair). Oh, and you'll do well to ACTUALLY not hit anyone again either.
It maybe wouldn't hurt if your girlfriend independently got him done for assault, but try not to be seen to have convinced her to do it, just to screw over the guy who's got the police to take you to court for hitting him!!!
Please please please post to say that you've read this advice and that you're not going to go after the guy and hit him again!! I know you won't but please just confirm this for us! :-)
The law states you are allowed to use "reasonable force" in such a situation. You seem to have done this bloke some serious damage. Sadly, having spent some time in the TA myself, that you are a soldier will not help your case. Reasonable would have been whatever was necessary to neutralise the situation.
Two years ago the police arrested me on suspicion for a similar incident due to a mistaken ID, whereby someone was hit over the head with a piece of scaffolding. I was later released without charge. In Hampshire where I live, 7 people have died in drunken violence as a result of sustaining single blows to the head.
After a lot of thought, in hindsight I can see the officers who arrested me were doing their job, nothing more or less.
These things happen and people, myself included have got to realise life is not fair.
A sad fact of the drinking culture in this country is that these incidents happen. Although too late now, for future reference if you are arrested for anything it's absolutely vital to keep your mouth shut. You're not obliged to say anything, so don't.
How people view these incidents depends always on which side of the fence you are sat at any given time. Setting out on a night-out, no-one expects to get into trouble with the police, it is always something that happens to "other people". What's done is done, but your girlfriend having been assaulted, you should have called the police and reported it. It sounds like the club you were at was a bit of a dive - you know where the trouble is, so stay away from such places. The trouble being that towns like Guildford, where I grew up, are packed full of squaddies at weekends looking for trouble.
You say you are due out of the army, I think that's a very, very good idea.
chris, take my advice on this please. If this danny character is a lawyer i am the king of england. And guess what, I am not.
If the CCTV shows the "indecent assault" on your bird then you can use force to "prevent crime" aswell.
Just learn section 3 of the Criminal Law Act, its only 3 or 4 lines long. I am sure if you ask Jan Bug nicely she will submit it to you.
PS What does blingingly actually mean Mr Fake Lawyer Man?
Ward-Minter - I don't mean to sound rude, but if you're offering help, why don't you just quote the to Chris's mate.
No offence chris's mate, but I'm guessing you don't have a criminal law library in your house, and that it would be easier for you if someone just posted the line. :-)
Seeing as how I'm trying to be nice, I'll google it and post it up for you. I don't get Lexis and Westlaw anymore WM, as I'm no longer a student. How do you get them?