//It is not gratifying to visit your male mate in a hospital ward up the road at St Mary's Hospital Praed after a good kicking or a bottle over their head let a lone a female officer//
-that's exactly what I am talking about Retro.
It's often moaned that women 'want their cake and to eat it' etc etc etc- that we want equality but we actually want preferential treatment- and yet when we ask not to be treated preferentially as this officer did- that's wrong as well.
If I chose to be a policewoman and I got shot, stabbed, beaten- whatever- WHY is that worse than if it happens to a man? Of course it isn't. Common sense tells us that, but there is a tendency amongst men only to be honest to assume that for some reason it is. It's that kind of social conditioning that needs breaking.
Now if she is unfit to fulfil her role s an officer I would be in absolute agreement with her being moved over o a desk job, but it wasn't the case at that point, so it should not have happened, and she was forced to do something she didn't want to do purely because she was female- and you've just underlined that, that it's actually men with the issue because they are for whatever reason unable to detach themselves from gender stereotypes and would be more keen to protect a female officer than a male- and that is the real issue with the greatest respect.