naomi - // If she wants to remain part of that she is not free to do as she wishes - well at least without encountering criticism. //
Your observation underlines what I believe to be an utterly false supposition on the part of the media, which in turn is endorsed by the public - the notion that the Duchess is entirely free to do and say as she pleases, and not only ignores royal protocol, but actively and willfully goes against it, pursuing her own particular brand of Kardashian-esque media celebrity.
I simply don't believe that this perception holds water.
As a member of the Royal Family, every single thing the Duchess does and says in public is planned and organised for her by others, and she goes along - because if she did act as the media likes to portray her, we would have heard a sight more about disapproval from the Queen.
It is clear from the deafening silence from the palace in the light of this media garbage, that the Duchess is not acting independently and with the arrogance and disregard that the press show her as possessing.
The Queen is not in the business of adoring anyone who brings her Family into disrepute, and history shows that she is not slow or shy to say so - and clearly she does adore the Duchess, so ask yourself, is this just a media hype campaign?
The evidence clearly stacks up to show that it is - and it should be ignored for the circulation-boosting piffle that it is.