Khandro at 22.34 - I only know what you post on here about people of colour and people who are gay - your attituds shine through, and you are called out for them regularly.
In terms of your son, three separate times you have felt the need to qualify him as 'not camp' clearly it matters to you how cyber strangers see him, and that can only be your own insecurity.
For the record, I don't care if your son makes Juĺian Clary look like a docker on steroids. I doubt anyone else on here cares either, and I am sure your son would be tolerant of you explaining him to strangers.
Ok, we know now, no need to remind us, unless your prejudices are keeping you awake at night.