I agree with nearly all of that. Although realistically, nobody knows, unless they are good friends with the Royals. Otherwise, every bit of information we have, is only from the media one way or another- and they are never 100% reliable.
As far as using the media, like Oprah Winfrey, goes, I can't blame them for that. Harry, especially, has had his whole life being rightly or wrongly, followed and reported by the media, with no way of putting anything right. So it makes sense to take the chance to give their side. Perhaps we should only allow papers to report truth, rather than the biased, sensationalist that a lot of them are.
I'm not a royalist, but I love the queen- and the response they gave. But, in truth, none of us know.