pixie - // I don't think it was irony- she was showing the difference in attitudes, as she believed people would scoff at men having to stay in at risk of arrest, but nod wisely at women staying in at risk of murder. I think attitudes and awareness are important, so I can see why she did it. //
On reflection, i can see that the lady has had her quote taken out of context, and then distorted in a way that gives it a meaning she neither intended, or that should have been attached to it, and I am happy to confess that I have been royally led down the proverbial garden path.
Thank you for your input, I am happy to stand corrected in my original viewpoint of the lady, and her statement.